Find your purpose and make your dreams happen!

 

I inspire and motivate women to dream BIG and create a life they love.

I think you know that within you lies so much untapped potential and possibility.

Knowing this and sensing you are made for more is so frustrating.

I bet if you get real honest with yourself, you probably have to admit that your current life is not a true expression of who you are or what you want.

Playing Small

So many of us just drift through life, living our lives on autopilot.  Living the same year on repeat.

“Some live 90 years, others live one year 90 times.”

We want to make positive changes and choices, but we just don’t know how.

Self-doubt and fear keep sabotaging us.

It’s easier to tell ourselves, it doesn’t matter.  We decide to settle.

*Isn’t having dreams a bit frivolous and childish anyway?

Wake-up Call

Imagine when you get to the end of your life, and you put your head on the pillow for last time (as you eventually will).

How do you think you will feel when you look back on your life?

I want you to really reflect on how you will feel if you continue to live your life on the very same trajectory, and nothing much changes.

Will you feel satisfied and content?   

Would you feel you have lived a full life?

If you answered yes, brilliant.  No need to read on.

Yet for many of us, the chances are this won’t be the case.

Instead of looking back happily, with contentment, many of us will feel heavy with regret.

We will wish we had been a bit braver, and had more courage to follow our heart and dreams.

Many of us will wish we had trusted ourselves more and dared to follow our own path.

Do you know what the number one regret of the dying is?

The Number One Regret of the Dying

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

How sad is that.

I don’t want this for myself, and I don’t want this for you.

One Life – Let’s make the best of it!

We are all dealt a different hand of cards, but regardless, isn’t it up to us to make the best of the hand that we have got?

This life is not a dress rehearsal.  We only get one shot at this.

I honestly don’t think we are coming around for another go on this planet! (Unless you believe in reincarnation, which I don’t).

So this is it, the full shebang.

Surely it makes sense to give it our best shot and go all in?

We get this one relatively short chance to create a life we love, that is an expression of who we truly are.

And, nope, I don’t think there is anything selfish about wanting live a life that makes you feel energised and alive.

Do you?

Don’t you deserve to live a life that lights you up, excites you and feels good?

Don’t you want that for yourself?  I know I do.

And there is never going to be a better time than now.

So many of us put of our own happiness for tomorrow.  But tomorrow doesn’t always come.  This happened to my Dad.

Exciting News Alert!

The great news is that your second half of life does not have to be the much the same as your first part.

News Alert!

You get to choose to create a different story for yourself, and be the co-creator of your next life chapter.

Just like in those adventure books you might remember reading as a kid.

You get to choose your own ending.

You might be reading this and thinking, yeah right!

If it was that easy surely I would have done it by now.

Who are you to spout on about creating a life you love.  You have no idea what challenges and struggles I have experienced in my life.

No I don’t.

But I do know that life can be hard.  It can grind you down and suck the soul and essence out of you.

I know it’s not easy

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If you are struggling and feeling stuck, lost and overwhelmed I know exactly what that feels like because I have been there too.

My story will be very different but, like us all I have been through incredibly tough times and lost my way.

For years I had hopes and dreams, but was constantly sabotaged by indecision (fear in disguise).  I struggled to take any real meaningful action for over a  decade.

It was disheartening to say the least.

Self-doubt and fear kept me second guessing myself and I found myself going around in ever decreasing circles.

In the end I was so frustrated and disillusioned that I gave up on myself and my dreams.

I no longer trusted myself to follow through with the things I said I was going to do.

Maybe you can relate?

Many of us throw in the towel, like I did because it all feels so impossible.

Where to start, how to begin?

What’s the point?!

It all feels too overwhelming and hard.  In the end it’s easier to quit, to pull the plug.

Then you tell yourself it doesn’t matter anyway.  We settle. Put up and get on with it.

My life is okay and I shouldn’t complain, when there are people far worse of than me.

Who am I to write a best selling book?

Who really wants to listen to my podcast anyway?

I’m too old, its too late, if it was meant to be it would be…. and on and on…..

Who am I to create a life and business doing what I love, and in the process making a beautiful living from it potentially?

Well, I’m here to tell you…..

WHO ARE YOU NOT TO CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE!

You my dear were not meant to play small or hide your light.

Amazing woman, like you were meant to shine, and make a difference out there in the world.

You certainly do not have to dim your light to fit , be liked or please other people.

It’s time to reclaim “You” and find your own version of purpose and meaning.

The Time is Now

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It’s time to take off your invisibility cloak, pull on those big girl pants, and go out there and make beautiful things happen.

I believe in you and the power and magic of your dreams

You deserve to create a life and work that you love and that lights you up.

It’s your time to shine baby girl! (even if you are well over 40 like me 🙂

Because the truth is, you are worthy, and you deserve to live a life you love.

My job is to get you to believe in yourself (because if you believe you can, or you believe you can’t you’re probably right!) and give you that much needed kick up the butt (encouragement, motivation and support) to get out there and start making it happen.

Think of me as your personal cheerleader who is rooting for you all the way.

I know that you can do this, and I have your back.

Yes, you can create a life that is a true expression of who you are.

YES YOU CAN!

Lets start today.

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